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Joint County Gang Prevention Task Force: Gang — Parents Guide

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Douglas F. Gansler, State’s Attorney


WARNING SIGNS — back to top

You should be concerned if your child:

  • Admits to gang involvement;
  • Is obsessed with one particular color of clothing or shows a desire for a particular logo over and over;
  • Wears sagging pants (this in and of itself is not indicative of gang activity);
  • Wears excessive jewelry with distinctive designs and may wear it only on either the right or left side of the body;
  • Is obsessed with gangster-influenced music, videos and movies to the point of imitation;
  • Withdraws from family with an accompanying change in demeanor;
  • Associates with undesirable friends and breaks parental rules consistently;
  • Develops an unusual desire for privacy and secrecy and may completely rearrange living quarters to create privacy;
  • Uses hand signs while with friends and practices them at home;

Or there is the appearance of:

  • Physical injury (such as being beaten) and then child lies about the events surrounding the injury:
  • Peculiar drawings or language on school books (may appear later as tattoos or brands);
  • Unexplained cash or goods, such as clothing or jewelry;
  • Possible use of alcohol and drugs with attitude change.

TELL YOUR CHILDREN THEY SHOULD NOT: — back to top

  • Associate with any gang members or “wannabe/gonnabe” gang members;
  • Identify or communicate with gangs;
  • Hang out near or where gangs congregate;
  • Approach strangers in cars who appear to want information or directions;
  • Wear gang related clothing where gangs are known to gather or traverse;
  • Wear initialed clothing such as BK – British Knights – a/k/a “Blood Killer” in high crime areas;
  • Use words like “crab” or “slob” (localized lingo may develop) anywhere gangs may be; i.e. malls, sporting events, etc.;
  • Attend any party or social event sponsored by gangs or their associates;
  • Take part in any graffiti activity or hang around where graffiti is present; or
  • Use any kind of finger or sign language in a public place.

TIPS FOR PARENTS — back to top

  • Impress upon your child the importance of school and good grades
  • Spend quality time with your children
  • Get involved in your child’s school activities
  • Establish rules, set limits and be consistent, firm and fair in punishment
  • Encourage good study habits
  • Respect your child’s feelings and attitudes and help them develop self-esteem
  • Watch closely for negative influences
  • Improve your own self-esteem so your children can model themselves after the most important “role model”—YOU.

TIPS FOR PARENTS/EDUCATORS — back to top

  • Help children develop self control
  • Help children deal appropriately with problems
  • Get involved in community oriented prevention and intervention programs. Urge others to become involved. Volunteer at your child’s school. Gangs are a community problem and their influence does not stop at any particular boundary.
  • Listen to your children. Communicate with them about their concerns and fears.



GANG INVESTIGATORS — back to top
  • Rockville Michele Eauclaire: 301 279-1591

  • Bethesda Kathryn Beard: 301 657-0609

  • Silver Spring Dylan Morris: 301 565-7744

  • Wheaton Robert Musser: 240 773-5570

  • Germantown Derrick Davis: 301 840-2650

  • Montgomery Village: Chad Garnes 240 773-5762

  • Gaithersburg City Pat Word: 301 258-6400

  • Rockville City: 301 309-3100

  • Takoma Park City: 301 891-7141

  • State’s Attorney’s Office Jeffrey Wennar: 240 777-7321

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Last edited: 12/20/2005